I offer online, individualized coaching sessions to help people start showing up more powerfully in their lives and relationships.

 

Are you ready for coaching?

This is the extra support you’ve always deserved, but never knew how to ask for.

It’s the permission to start prioritizing your self and your happiness.

It’s the shift in perspective you need to finally believe that you have a right to be here and it can be safe to be seen.

And the reminder that the world needs you.

 
 
 
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Coaching With Ro

If you’re ready to make a commitment to start truly showing up for yourself and start transforming the thoughts, embodied beliefs and behaviors that keep you stuck in self abandonment, I’m here to walk by your side.

  • 12 sessions over 3 or 6 months
  • Sessions are 60 minutes
  • Weekday support w/ voice text
  • A custom plan for your vision

$1800

Pay up front to get a FREE session!
Or pay monthly ($600/mo for 3 months or $300/mo for 6 months).


Interested? All in? Have questions?

Let’s have a 15 minute phone chat to see if we’re a good fit and so you can ask any questions you might have.

What My Clients Have To Say

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"I think the most powerful thing I learned from my time working with Rowan is that everything I need is within me. Seems crazy, but when you’re really looking for a way forward and someone can actually point to where that way forward starts, the guess work is now completely unnecessary. Decide what you want. Go towards it."

Heather Ormsbee
Art Professional
@phantomburned

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“Working with Rowan challenged me to deeply interrogate my connection to my art, how I see my art in relation to the world & to myself. They led me to investigate what my writing has to offer and played a guiding role in leading me to (re)discover my inspiration.”

Jerrod Bohn
Writer & Teacher
Published Works

“Rowan taught me to abandon the negative narrative about my life, a toxic story that I had been unwittingly telling myself over and over for years. In its place, Rowan helped me build a new narrative and my focus shifted from trying to become someone I wished I was, to instead embracing who I already am.

Trevor Essmeier

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"Rowan created a safe space for us to work together, and I immediately felt able to open up and speak my truth. They brought the sort of non-judgmental wisdom and light to the table that I need to translate my shame into curiosity, and then use it to discover ways to love my flawed self on my own terms. Rowan helped me recognize that I'm allowed to fail, I'm allowed to say no, and that these things needn't define my worth as a person."

Ben Haley
Creative, Salon Of Shame

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I work with brilliant people who have so much to give the world but who also:

  • Struggle with confidence and self worth
  • Struggle with fawning and people pleasing
  • Have a hard time speaking up for themselves
  • Tone themselves down for fear of being "too much"
  • Act like they don't have needs to seem easy going
  • Prioritize other people's needs above their own
  • Have a hard time setting boundaries and saying no
  • End up in savior roles, trying to fix others
  • Keep ending up in one-sided relationships
  • Fall for people who avoid, manipulate, or abuse
 
 

Perhaps you had an “oh shit” moment after discovering one or more (or all) of these terms:

People Pleasing, Codependency, Anxious Attachment, The Fawn Response, Narcissistic Abuse, Complex Trauma, Developmental Trauma, CPTSD and Functional Freeze.

If so, you’re in the right place.

 

I’d love to work with you if you’re ready to give yourself permission to finally:

  • Be genuinely be on your own side
  • Show up as your full, incredible self
  • Put your happiness and wellbeing first
  • Start setting and maintaining clear boundaries
  • Magnetize more safe & secure partners
  • Be more direct without being an asshole
  • Say yes to things you've been yearning for
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If you’re hearing the voice inside calling out, “yes, this is where I want to go!”, it’s time to listen.

When you’re ready, hit that ‘‘work with me” button and let me know what you’re committed to working on. You’ll be able to set up a free 30 minute video chat with me to see if we’re a good fit, and if so, crank the volume!

It’s your time to live louder.

 

New to coaching?

 

What Coaching Is

Coaching is a conversation. My job is to tease out the inner wisdom that you ALREADY have inside of you. To partner with you in creating a plan to ignite the fire in you. To hold you accountable to your highest potential.

What I Do:

  • Help you get clear on what you truly want

  • Help you see your greatest potential

  • Help you identify what’s holding you back

  • Offer transformative insights and facilitate internal shifts

  • Hold you accountable to the goals you set with me

What Coaching Is Not

Coaching is not therapy - a focus on identifying and healing past trauma or internal dysfunction. It’s also not consulting or mentoring - providing advice or labor based on my expertise.

What I Don’t Do:

  • Dictate what you should do to be successful

  • Do the work for you

  • Help you defend your limitations

  • Give diagnoses or prescribe medication

  • Use therapeutic methods to heal your trauma

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🔥 Values

I welcome people of all social identities and experiences into my practice.

I believe that everyone has the ability to change, some quite radically.

I believe that everyone deserves the chance to change if they demonstrate genuine intent, regardless of their past.

My work is informed by the global conversations around transformative justice and radical compassion.

I oppose all forms of oppression, and I am on a lifelong journey to better understand oppressive systems and tweak whatever I must inside myself to be a better ally and accomplice.

I believe we must stand up against oppression and exploitation in society. 

🎯 Mission

I believe that all trauma-related work must inherently be anti-oppressive and against capitalism & imperialism.

Therefore, the work I do as coach is inherently political work.

My mission is to help liberate as many people as possible from their old programming, so that more brilliant, wounded people can start showing up as healers, activists, thinkers, builders, artists, and change-makers in the world.

Are you ready to commit to showing up more powerfully in your life and in your relationships? I’ve got you. And yes, it’s time. And yes, you CAN.